Loving My New Job

So last night I had a thought while sorting through inventory, I am no longer “hiding” my job.  I kept it under wraps for a while because of what some of my family members and uptight friends might think but then I thought……..who cares!  God knows what I do, my mom looking down on me knows what I do, AND on top of those two – I LOVE my job!! (and the money isn’t bad either lol) ;0)

Here it goes……….

Back in January I became a Pure Romance Consultant.  (And see you thought it was going to be bad lol)  I love being in direct sales (the kids still think moma sells candles haha) and I have finally found my niche.  I love helping women discover that they in fact are NOT broken and many of us have some of the same problems.  I love the fact that I can help change a relationship from boring to exciting.  I LOVE the fact that a customer told me that I saved her marriage by helping her bring intimacy back their lives.  Yes we do sell “toys” but we call them bedroom accessories and much to my surprise that is only about 15% of my sells.  As a matter of fact I really don’t even focus on them much.  It’s the products like Body Dew, Sensations, Dust me pink, whipped, and x-Scream that I focus on the most.  The things that spice it up a little and really help us women to clear our minds and focus on our men! 

Lack of intimacy is in the top 5 reasons of divorce these days (it, among other things, killed my first marriage [and my husband’s]). It is essential that we as women can clear our minds of the day’s disappointments and focus on our spouse or significant other and regain the pre-life/pre-kids relationship we once had.  After all in 18 years they are gone, THAT is NOT the time to turn to your spouse and say “ok NOW it’s your turn.”  Keep them first!!!  After the kids go to bed or the day settles down, Have FUN!!!  THAT is what my job is about! 

I like to keep my shows around PG-13 depending on the crowd. Trashy just isn’t really my thing, you know.  Classy and educational is more my style.  I take pride in the fact that clients tell me that I made them feel comfortable and enlightened.  I love the fact that they feel like they can talk with me about very important relationship issues in the privacy of the ordering room.  I love that I can help fix a problem that they thought was just unfixable.  Isn’t that what life is really all about?…….girl talk lol

Any questions?

I will go ahead and answer the number 1 question that will be in a few of your minds……..no my kids do not see anything.  Everything is left behind closed and LOCKED doors inside locked cases.  Moma goes to work on some nights and still takes a candle bag with her lol.  As they get older they may start to get curious but as of now there doesn’t seem to be an issue.  My 12 year old bonus doesn’t let on that he knows and he doesn’t have access to it even if he did.

Why “come out” about this now?.............Why not!

WHOOO HOOOOO!!!!!!!!

WOW what a crazy life we lead!!!  Tons have happened in the Kovach house, just yesterday actually.  After many of trips back and forth to the Marcus institute in Atlanta we have finally gotten Micah’s results from the long and drawn out Autism screening.  I never that a negative would be so good to hear.  My little munchkin does NOT have Autism.  He is delayed in a few areas such as speech and cognitive skills but it will be overcome.  Mind you that I would have been just as “ok” with the diagnosis or “labeling” of Autism.  I was so ready for the positive that the negative was a HUGE surprise.  I went there to find where on the spectrum he fell.  I wish I could have seen the look on my own face when she said “I have good news for you today!”

Now on to speech classes and intense treatment.  We have about a year and a half to catch up on.  He is starting to speak finally.  Three months ago he said Moma and Daddy for the first “real” time.  So now he is really speaking at a 12-18 month old level. (he’s 3 years old)  He has obviously been listening when I teach Malachi things so we are just going to teach both at the same time.  I think I will have Malachi “help” me teach him to talk.  First thing first, get Malachi to stop talking for him! Lol

I will no longer hinder my son by relying on the phrase “That’s just part of it.” Like his therapist in the past has done.    BIG changes coming soon!

Why push your children to do better and go further than they think they can?..........Why not?!?!!?  I think if you never set the bar, there’s never anything to reach for.

WOW!!! It has been a hectic life in the Kovach house lately!!!  We have continued with the kitchen remodel, little by little as the money comes in.  (The Christmas decorations are still out!)  And the kids are now back to school!

Micah, my little man, started a special education pre-k program at the local school here and needless to say…….Moma hates it!!!  My baby has just turned 3!  I am suppose to have him home with me for a little while longer, right?!?!?

Isn't he just the cutest!!!!

You would think I would enjoy the peace and quiet around the house but it only happens for 2 hours each day and I just don’t know what to do with myself.  So this week I am sewing…….pajama pants and school pants for the little ones, dress pants for me (hopefully I can make the pattern), blankets for the older boys (hubby and Jeremy), and maybe a shirt in there somewhere if I get brave enough.

So no time to continue writing today……..I have a lot of work to do!!!  I just didn’t want you guys to think I feel off the side of the world!! lol