Loving My New Job

So last night I had a thought while sorting through inventory, I am no longer “hiding” my job.  I kept it under wraps for a while because of what some of my family members and uptight friends might think but then I thought……..who cares!  God knows what I do, my mom looking down on me knows what I do, AND on top of those two – I LOVE my job!! (and the money isn’t bad either lol) ;0)

Here it goes……….

Back in January I became a Pure Romance Consultant.  (And see you thought it was going to be bad lol)  I love being in direct sales (the kids still think moma sells candles haha) and I have finally found my niche.  I love helping women discover that they in fact are NOT broken and many of us have some of the same problems.  I love the fact that I can help change a relationship from boring to exciting.  I LOVE the fact that a customer told me that I saved her marriage by helping her bring intimacy back their lives.  Yes we do sell “toys” but we call them bedroom accessories and much to my surprise that is only about 15% of my sells.  As a matter of fact I really don’t even focus on them much.  It’s the products like Body Dew, Sensations, Dust me pink, whipped, and x-Scream that I focus on the most.  The things that spice it up a little and really help us women to clear our minds and focus on our men! 

Lack of intimacy is in the top 5 reasons of divorce these days (it, among other things, killed my first marriage [and my husband’s]). It is essential that we as women can clear our minds of the day’s disappointments and focus on our spouse or significant other and regain the pre-life/pre-kids relationship we once had.  After all in 18 years they are gone, THAT is NOT the time to turn to your spouse and say “ok NOW it’s your turn.”  Keep them first!!!  After the kids go to bed or the day settles down, Have FUN!!!  THAT is what my job is about! 

I like to keep my shows around PG-13 depending on the crowd. Trashy just isn’t really my thing, you know.  Classy and educational is more my style.  I take pride in the fact that clients tell me that I made them feel comfortable and enlightened.  I love the fact that they feel like they can talk with me about very important relationship issues in the privacy of the ordering room.  I love that I can help fix a problem that they thought was just unfixable.  Isn’t that what life is really all about?…….girl talk lol

Any questions?

I will go ahead and answer the number 1 question that will be in a few of your minds……..no my kids do not see anything.  Everything is left behind closed and LOCKED doors inside locked cases.  Moma goes to work on some nights and still takes a candle bag with her lol.  As they get older they may start to get curious but as of now there doesn’t seem to be an issue.  My 12 year old bonus doesn’t let on that he knows and he doesn’t have access to it even if he did.

Why “come out” about this now?.............Why not!